Below are articles and books I highly recommend for couples. They are drawn from three of the primary influences on my approach to working with Couples:
 
PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy),
EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy), 
Jon Gottman's Research-Based approach to Relationships.

A Blog on PACT therapy

https://stantatkinblog.wordpress.com

A Video Of Stan Tatkin discussing Why Relationships are Hard?


Articles by Sue Johnson, Creator of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
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• How To Keep Your Relationship Together (Even When It’s Falling Apart) – Now you can share this simple take on the most recent EFT and attachment study with your couples.
• Love Sense: from Infant to Adult
• Shaping Love – A Seminal Study – The latest in EFT!! Read Dr. Sue Johnson’s latest blog – and learn more about the latest, groundbreaking research in shaping relationships from despair and disconnection into loving, lasting bonds, filled with life and laughter!
• Ten Tips for a Strong Vibrant Relationship
• The Three Kinds of Sex
• What You Need to Know About Love
• Where Does Love Go Wrong? The Three Demon Dialogues That Can Wreck Your Relationship
• Hold Me Tight (as originally published in Psychology Today, January, 2009)

Articles based on Jon Gottman's Research-Based Approach to Relationships 

Emotionally Intelligent Husbands are the Key to a Lasting Marriage
3 Research-Based Tips for a Happy & Healthy Relationship


Books I Recommend for Couples:

Hold me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, By Sue Johnson.

Wired for Love: How Understanding your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship, By Stan Tatkin

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from The Nation's Foremost Relationship Expert, By Jon Gottman