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Reading / Listening / Viewing Resources for Couples

Start Here (these are my top two recommendations for reading / listening ): 

Fierce Intimacy: Standing up To One Another With Love, by Terry Real (audiobook only)

We Do: Saying Yes to  Relationship of Depth, True Connection , and Enduring Love, by Stan Tatkin (print book or audiobook  * written for couples in the engagement / early commitment  phase but totally applicable to other phases of relationship)

Other Books for Couples by Leaders in the Couples Therapy Field You might Check Out:

The New Rules of Marriage, by Terry Real 

Hold me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, By Sue Johnson.

Wired for Love: How Understanding your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship, By Stan Tatkin

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from The Nation's Foremost Relationship Expert, By Jon Gottman

Remember: 

1) Nothing you read and no idea in and of itself will change your experience in relationship: only doing something differently will bring about change.
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2) Ideally, both partners explore these resources together. If you're partner isn't willing to, then only use these learning materials to steer your own behavior in a better direction. Trying to use what you learn as ammunition to judge or change your partner is a losing strategy. 

A Blog on PACT therapy

https://stantatkinblog.wordpress.com

A Video Of Stan Tatkin discussing Why Relationships are Hard?




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    • Inspiration
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  • Testimonials
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  • Men's Groups